Senior Tip of the Week – Supporting the Caregiver

Wednesday, April 3rd, 2019

 

Hi, my name is Becky and I want to talk to you about caregiver support. You know a lot of families don’t live as close together as they used to. For instance my sister lives 350 miles away, my brother lives 520 miles away, and I live in the same town as our mom. So logically most of the caregiving responsibilities fall towards me. When your family is like that, and you have one person providing the bulk of the caregiving, the best thing the rest of the family can do is to kind of create a caregiver support group. You can provide encouragement, support and respite when it’s needed. I remember one day I got a card in the mail from my sister. when I opened it a gift card fell out with a note attached that said “Becky, I’m so appreciative of the good care you take of our mom. Thank you so much for taking all of this responsibility. We love you.” I can’t tell you how good that felt. The best thing to do is to pull together as a family and do the right thing for, not only each other, but for that caregiver and for your parent. When a family comes together to do the right thing, it’s the best gift ever. You can do this!