Senior Tip of the Week – Discussing the Future

Wednesday, May 1st, 2019

 

Hi, my name is Becky and I want to talk to you about how to discuss the future with your parents. The future needs of your parents are going to come. Denying them isn’t going to change a thing. If you notice they’re starting to forget things, misplace things, get confused about different things – it’s ok to know that that’s not an emergency, but it’s not okay to ignore it because it is going together worse; it’s just a fact of aging. So the best thing you can do is begin the talk early. Engage in a conversation with your loved one, listen to them. Take heart to what they have to say. They have opinions about their own care and many times they’ll be different from yours, but still okay. so have that conversation, start it early, don’t be afraid. Kind and thoughtful and honest conversations about the future will actually bring a lot of peace into your loved one’s heart, and into yours too. So go ahead and start that conversation you’ve been avoiding. You can do it.